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Coaching session: attended by the couple or the fiancée with the life coach.
The purpose of the sessions
In order for the session to succeed, each session must have a clear goal, and the goal of the session is determined by asking the couple about the life coach why they came to do the coaching session, and through the challenges and problems they pose, the goal of the session is determined.
In the session, the life coach helps both the husband and the wife to express their needs from the other and from the relationship, and also determine based on these needs what is satiated and what is not in the relationship. That conflict with the values of the relationship, and the hidden obstacles that prevent you from being close to each other
What happens at the beginning of the session?
Life Coach is keen to create a safe space in the dialogue so that both spouses or the fiancée can express everything inside them without judgment from one party to the other. Also, non-interruption in speech is taken into account.
How does that happen?
At the beginning of the coaching session, the Life Coach makes an agreement with the beneficiaries on everything that will happen during the session and after the session ends.
What is the framework agreement?
Life Coach, who specializes in developing relationships, clarifies the standards of the International Coaching Federation, and then emphasizes a set of points that help the spouses or the fiancée, that the experience for them be useful and have a positive impact on the relationship.
Example:
Emphasize that the goal of the session is to help them develop their relationships.
Mutual respect when one of the two parties speaks.
Not to judge or ridicule the husband or wife when someone speaks.
– Life Coach confirms that it does not take sides.
Confirmation of confidentiality of the information presented in the session by both spouses.
Applying these points in the couples coaching sessions helps to create a state of understanding and non-judgmental, and gives an opportunity for deep communication with each other.
Express feelings
Life Coach helps spouses and fiancée express their feelings and realize how to deal with feelings and how they can be controlled. It also helps you learn new ways through which you present your thoughts freely. You learn how to notice your partner and give advice without criticism or offense. It makes you able to understand problems with a deep perspective. Remember that every conflict Among you there may be a good motive and a good intention to satisfy a need, and you have to discover that need.
In coaching sessions, it is not the role of Life Coach to provide ready-made solutions or advice as some expect, but it helps through active listening and awareness of everything that is said and not said by the spouses, and it asks a set of questions that help awareness of new ways to practice communicating with each other to resolve your differences And realizing the efficiency of the aspects of the problem to be solved, and this was done through the application of coaching tools that develop and develop the relationship.
